Community is not build in a day

I come from a generation that is often quick to want to save people. While we may have valid reasons for this, our desire to be a saviour can push others away.

Most people we encounter have been through a lot; life has happened to them, and they have experienced hurt from friends, family, and within the church. When inviting others in or trying to include them, we might be met with reservation.

They have become guarded and very cautious, struggling to believe in the genuineness of our intentions. They might wonder, “Am I just another tick on your checklist? Is he/she fake?”

We should be mindful of this and allow them the space to simply be. It’s not easy to open up or even sit at your table when someone has been hurt so many times before.

We should adopt an attitude of grace: show love, be patient, and love well. Don’t expect deep connections to develop on your timetable, and don’t push too hard, or you risk pushing them away.

In the meantime, we can ask God to help us show love and grace.“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” 1 Peter 4:8 (NIV),

Let us embrace this call to love, fostering an environment where healing and community can truly flourish.

Blessed Wednesday.

Zelna